CarolineSep 23, 20202 min readForget the "should"There’s a swear word that is often used by people who have just separated from their life partner. Contrary to popular belief, it doesn’t...
CarolineDec 11, 20192 min readWhen cross-examination hurtsOn 10 September 2019 the Australian family law act was amended so that perpetrators of family violence can no longer cross-examine their...
CarolineDec 4, 20192 min readDoes de facto count in court?The generic definition of de facto means “existing or holding a specified position in fact but not necessarily by legal right”. A de...
CarolineNov 27, 20192 min readWhat do toxic bosses and toxic spouses have in common?A “toxic” boss can be described in broad terms as being self-centred, controlling (or micro-managing), manipulative and threatened by...
CarolineNov 20, 20192 min readWhy does trauma awareness matter?Because trauma is more prevalent than you may think. Situations which can lead to psychological trauma include single incidents (such as...
CarolineNov 13, 20192 min readSelling ice to AntarcticaSome characters are so charismatic they could sell ice to Antarctica (although in the context of global warming, perhaps that’s not such...
CarolineNov 6, 20192 min readWhat did you forget?Have you ever gone to collect your car keys and been completely clueless as to where you put them? Or spent ages searching for your...
CarolineOct 30, 20192 min readThe fine line between defence and offenceWhen faced with emotional abuse, whether from a romantic partner, at work or online, we essentially have three logical choices. We can...
CarolineOct 23, 20192 min readCan we learn from ostriches?Divorce is traumatic, even when it’s amicable. If the marriage was abusive or separating involved conflict, the impact is even more...
CarolineOct 16, 20191 min readIt's not me, it's youA self-represented family court litigant with a confessed history of physical and emotional abuse against his wife claimed that the...
CarolineOct 9, 20192 min readToxic relationships are like being chased by a tigerIn prehistoric times, when a caveman realised he had been spotted by a sabre-toothed tiger, his primitive brain flooded his body with...